I am very curious was Andrea a roman catholic, and if she reconciled with God before her death for example by confession. I will pray for her, and If be in Prague, visit her sculpture.
If yes, she should be promoted by church as example of person, which make hard sins in his life, but returned to God and died to help us understand some affairs.
When we watching porn, we "use" the pornstar as object of our fantasy. We do not realize that it is a women, real living person with her personality, which can die in anytime as we all.
Some of us declare on this forum, that watchin porn with Lea is impossible, when we know that she is dead. But everyone should make a question for himself - what is the difference, it is only a movie, only an image, virtual scene... So, maybe if there is no difference, but we cannot, we should reject all porn as a sin? And maybe Andrea will help us in that task?
I think that God's plan was to give us this reflections, this thinkings, that porn is sin and this feeling should be in our hearts even watching alive pornstars.
Thanks for your posting. I'm Chris, currently the person behind Lea's website. May I ask you who are and to explain your philosophy a little bit more? You mention interesting points which I've never understood. E. g. I don't understand what you mean when you say "hard sins" and "that porn is sin"? Please explain that a little bit more detailled. I know that there are a lot of nice people out there who like to watch porn movies. They enjoy them and they love life more after having watched them than before. What's wrong with that?
According to my impression Andrea did good things and she made herself a present to the world. In sports as well as in porn. Maybe she had to deal with persons whom we both would consider "bad" or "evil". But she herself had a clean soul and she was one of the best and most beautiful persons I've ever met alive. There was no trace of "sin" or "evil" or "negative" in her person (maybe besides the fact that she was smoking a lot
She was very special. To meet her was like touching pure love - or eternity (don't misunderstand me: I never had sex with her!). To me she was the opportunity of "sin".
Chris, I think that you know, that christianity rejects any form of porn and teaches that it is a sin. So, from the christian point of view, any pornstar is the sinner, even "hard sinner". 1 “It is impossible that no occasions of stumbling should come, but woe to him through whom they come! It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea, rather than that he should cause one of these little ones to stumble"
I know, that you maybe have another point of view, and I do not want to evangelize you, but my point of view is compliant with church authority. So I am curious, If did she make any kind of relish "return" before the end, to reach God's infinite mercy.
Dear Matahari, I think it's one very interesting point, when you wrote about "church authority". At the times, when the bible was written, there exists no porn acting, because there was no media to record it. Maybe paintings, but I think, paintings of that kind didn't need a model. So the definition of porn as a sin can be made not before the invention of photography. I mean, it is not declared as a sin by Jesus or mentioned somewhere else in the bible, as a basic of christian faith. This decision is made by man, by church authority. By people of the same church that burned witches, that declared, that earth is flat, that allowed the killing of heathens. I don't want to attack the church by that, I just want to point out, that the authorities of the christian church made many errors since it's founding. Maybe it's another error, to say porn is a sin? I see that there are differences to the given examples, but I just want to ask you the truly meant question, what is giving you the absolute security, that the decision of the church authority is right in this case?
Sorry, I forgot to replay to another point you mentioned in your first posting, Matahari. Some month ago I wrote, that I didn't watch porn movies of Lea since she died. But that has nothing to do with the question, if porn is a sin or not. The main reason for watching porn is sexual stimulation. But when I see a picture or a film of Lea, I think about her terrible death and the harm it brings to her family and friends. That kills any erotic thoughts, and that's the reason, why I don't watch any films of her. I think your are right, that we use porn only as some kind of non-personal-fantasy. I don't know much about the models in other movies, but I know much more about Andrea, and that destroys that kind of fantasy. It would be as if I watch photographs or videos of my former girlfriends to get in sexual mood, that wouldn't work, too, because too many other thoughts or memories beneath sex come to my mind in that moment.
