Dear JS, these words are not against you, and I fully agree with you, when you say, that noone should judge Andrea or insult her family for her work. But I can't agree with you, when your write "As we all know, porn destroys the souls of all people consuming that stuff." I cannot see, why it should destroy the soul, the mind or whatever of someone, when he watches other people having physical love. Making sex is one of the biggest joys we can feel, and I prefer doing it myself rather than watching others doing it, but that's not the point. Sometimes I even watch porn together with my girlfriend, to get new idees, and I cannot say, that I feel any necessity to get saved from a trap. Watching Porn is just one of many harmless enjoyments, that doesn't hurt anybody.
What I don't like, are some structures in the porn business, that uses people and throws them away fast, but that's a very different point and I know other, more respectable kinds of business, where people are not treated better. So I have high respect for any actor or actress who works in this hard biz. More than for someone, who sits in his bureau and plans, how to discharge thousands of workers, how to sell weapons to others or something like that. A sin is just that, what is defined by other people as a sin. For me it's only a sin, when you hurt anyone else, not to get some money for having sex and bringing enjoyment to others, who like to watch it.
God gave us sex to enjoy only in our lives when we are MARRIED, not in casual or free sexual relationships! Marriage is the ONLY way He will accept sex in a person's life, because then, and ONLY then, has He blessed a union of a MAN AND A WOMAN ONLY. NO EXCEPTIONS. Anything other than that is FORNICATION, or in the case of homosexuality, beastiality, sodomy and the like, an ABOMINATION to His true design for the human race, procreation, and those who choose to, and IS a sin. These are SINS of the FLESH, and TRULY holy people do NOT commit sins of the flesh. The spirit of God IN them prevents it's manifestation. Sadly, some do fail from time-to-time. However, it is the those that fail or REFUSE to acknowledge and repent of these sins that God will be in judgement of. Pornography IS a RAMPANT PLAYGROUND for these sins. God IS a god of love, true, but He has His commandments that MUST be abided by otherwise eternal damnation WILL be the result. That IS His judgement. For ALL. I truly pray that Lea found salvation before she passed away. She has sinned yes, but to call her a whore IS a sin in itself whether it was a fact or not. Tread VERY carefully. Disrespect of the dead is highly sinful. There is no free pass to heaven, but it is MUCH easier to stamp your ticket to hell. There WILL be "crying and the gnashing of teeth" when people are condemned to hell. It WILL be a reality, except for those who ask for forgiveness and RENOUNCE their past sins, of which there are many, and not just these mentioned. I say this to not enrage, but to make people aware that His forgiveness is always there, but not if one fearlessly does things that are contrary to His commandments and teachings. Read the Bible, with an OPEN mind, and see for yourself what God thinks IS sin. I'm not judging anyone, and if it seems so, I humbly apologize, for that in itself IS a sin. I certainly don't hate anyone, quite the contrary. That too IS a sin. It is the sin I hate, NOT the sinner. I'm speaking straight from the Word Of GOD and nothing more. My heart YEARNS for NOTHING BUT SALVATION for the WHOLE world. The God that I serve would judge ME if I did nothing to make others aware of His salvation plan. It IS attainable through HIS DIRECTON ALONE. THAT is the ONLY way to salvation. There is only one TRUE God. Of that I am certain through His Word. I am COMMANDED by Him to share the wisdom that He has blessed and honoured me with. Take care everyone, but most of all, TAKE HEED! It is your ETERNAL soul at risk.
If you believe that the Bible was decipherd 100% then you would think God does not have such an open mind. Right? In fact you think that God already knows who is going to heaven or hell. So really we would have no free will to make a choice.
I for one do not believe that. I consider myself christian. But I will not fall under the false accusations of any religion created by man. Be it on purpose or be it misconstruded. I knew Andrea. Was she close to God? Nope. But will that mean she will live in eternal damnation? I do not believe so. I m hoping that God is a forgiving God right down to the end. If not then we will all perish in the hot fire.
It is unfortunate that a lot of people actually are worshiping the religion instead of God. That is why there is so many problems in the world. Not just christianity but in other faiths as well. You bow down and worship the Book instead of God. Like it or not the Bible and other books of faith can and probably have been misinterped in many, many places. It's a fact that even the second translation had mistakes and it goes down the line. And a lot of words that were not known could of been a guess. Or even worse, made up by a mortal thinking thats what God or Christ would of said. And this is a very probable problem.
The Bible is God's two edged sword against evil. Not God himself. The Bible will not judge others, God will do that. I hope for what kind of person my friend truly was and not for what she ended up doing for a living.
AS I had said before that I was against Andrea doing adult film. Not just because of religion but health reasons also. But it was her choice or "God's Will", He already knowing, to continue to do it. But I never held it against her. And for all I thought wrong, I forgave. Now I ask from all people. If a man can forgive why can't God? If a mother can forgive, why can't God? If a sister can forgive, why can't God?
Andrea, may have not asked forgivness for herself. But you know what? While she was laying in her bed not knowing what was going to happen she had at least one person half way around the world that was her friend asking for her forgivness!! AND STILL IS!!
And I don't talk to the book, a statue or a picture. I talk to the God. And I believe if He is a forgiving God, God of love, the God he wants us to beleive He is, ect. Then Andrea is saved. No doubts and nothing any book can tell me otherwise.
Food for thought
For my friend I love and desperately miss and continue to defend her given name.
Para, I am sorry if I seemed harsh and unforgiving, that was far from my intention. That said, you are putting words into my mouth. I DO worship the LIVING GOD, NOT the Bible and certainly NOT religion. That is MAN-MADE! If you truly believe that He is just willing to accept evil deeds and let a person into His kingdom, then you are tragically deluding yourself. I truly never meant that Andrea was doomed! Far from it! Only she herself knows what her thoughts were in her last days. The Bible has been crucified in popular culture for years now. It THE holy book that is to be followed by true Christians that believe and live the life without temptation and sin in their lives. They will fail at times, but forgiveness is just a BREATH away. Just as is it for unbelievers that want to to start believing in God. However, that is again your free will to choose between the two. Let me make my position crystal clear: It is only through God's DIRECTION that man can find salvation, just as I said in my earlier post. The Bible is only a GUIDELINE that has been anointed, given to us BY GOD through ANOINTED disciples, whether you want to believe it or not, to provide man with the knowledge of God's plan and for understanding. Of course there are and always will be people who will say: Oh, it was written by a man, so there is no way to know if it's accurate or not! Only God himself knows for sure that which is true, and I concede that point very willingly. BUT, we can only know we what know through HUMAN knowledge, so God's is much more trustworthy, in my humble opinion. You see, that is EXACTLY what the Devil himself is all about! It is that very doubt that he is just waiting for to creep into a one's mind so he can pounce and ruin one's life with temptation and sin[s]. God wants the best for us, He truly does, but you can't just take the easy road and expect Him to forgive without ASKING for forgiveness! There is no such thing as a watered-down God! That would totally nullify what being a TRUE Christian is all about! You can't be a Christian with sin in your life! You're FOOLING yourself! As much as it might hurt you to hear this, and I TRULY DON'T mean to, but "GOD'S WILL", that you said it was when Andrea continued to do adult movies, is an absolute ABOMINATION to His name! It is ABHORRED by God! Pornography will NEVER be accepted by GOD! In ANY circumstance! The ONLY acceptable thing for us is to ask for God's forgiveness and to turn away from it FOREVER! I've only said that it is truly my hope that she prayed for her forgiveness in her OWN heart. Asking for someone's forgiveness during or after they have lived will NOT save their soul! Only she could have done that as it was HER life to be forgiven. You can only control your own destiny. That is where TRUE free will comes into it. As such, you have your free will to believe what I've posted and ingest the "Food For Thought" just as I have ingested yours, or you can reject it. THAT is YOUR free will, not mine. I'm not forcing ANYTHING on you or others! I certainly am not going to take away your free will! That is God's promise to you! Far be it from me to even think of it! I've only put those words in my past post to pass an offer of HOPE and PEACE to people out of LOVE and SERVICE to GOD whom I believe in. That is his COMMAND to me as a Christian. The Bible as a book has been torn down and ripped apart for years, but it is STILL the standard for GOOD and CLEAN living. Don't you often wonder why that is? It is because God himself said: "The Heavens and Earth shall pass away, but the Word of God shall live...FOREVER!" No filtering or skewing of His Word will EVER change that! THAT is why I BELIEVE in the Word, but only as a GUIDELINE. It is the only book in the world that offers TRUE hope for an eternal life without damnation. As for free will, God has offered that to us for US to decide if we want to believe in Him or not. He does not have the names already written in His book of life. It is your choice to believe or not. Take a step in faith and just see for yourself whether what I mention is true or not. Make a REAL commitment and work to erase sin from your life. You can't have it both ways though. There is NO walking the fence and rationalizing Christianity! That IS the religion MAN has made, not God! It has been CORRUPTED by man's thinking, yes, but it has also been maintained in it's original form and UPHELD by man strongly too. It is that conflict by which people that have made up their minds to refuse to believe in it. There is a lot of fear that one cannot live up to those standards because we are only human. That's true, we are only human and do fail sometimes, but he only asks us for our penitence and commitment to forgo our sins. It can be a never ending cycle, and he certainly never asked us to be perfect, but that we strive to be as close to it as we knowledgeably can. Only He knows what is in our hearts. But there is common sense too. If it "feels good" as is so often heard in our culture, that doesn't mean it's neccessarily right! "His knowledge is unsearchable" the good book says. That is one of the biggest reasons Christianity is failing the people. As humans we try to understand things to suit US and not Him. That is human nature of course. He asks us to follow Him and GIVE UP the past things and sins of our life. THAT is why most people won't and can't make the commitment. If only people would realize that He would provide a blessing so great that we can't even comprehend it's wealth, be it monetary or otherwise. That is what He is offering to ALL if only they would receive it. With a LIVING God in our lives, we can become so much more! That is the tragic thing that most fail to realize. We are NOT living our lives to our TRUE potential by following our own hearts! Not even close. It is free will, yes, and that is the choice that God HAS given us, but He has something much more rewarding planned for everyone. Some will believe and some won't, it's that simple. And very tragic. God IS a god of love, however he has MADE guidelines for us to CHOOSE to live for Him. Or not to. Not everyone will be granted forgiveness, so please don't just disregard my words as arrogant or all-knowing. Those are sins of the highest order that I must not commit. I know what I know through EXPERIENCE and PRAYER with God, and say so with a VERY clean conscience. You and others can have the same experiences, but you have to make a commitment and not flounder around in the ways of the world. I am done posting here as I've said all that I've needed to say on this subject. I am not going to engage in any personal attacks or debates, because one will choose to believe in God or not. I wish you nothing but God's grace and understanding in your life, and may you receive peace and joy if you might choose to understand His teachings. Truly I do. Honestly. Take care.
...Asking for someone's forgiveness during or after they have lived will NOT save their soul! Only she could have done that as it was HER life to be forgiven. You can only control your own destiny ...
You are presenting your views as Christian but it isn't accurate. The view presented by you is characteristic of the Protestant Church.
Para presents a different point of view.
... Andrea, may have not asked forgivness for herself. But you know what? While she was laying in her bed not knowing what was going to happen she had at least one person half way around the world that was her friend asking for her forgivness!! AND STILL IS!! ...
It is most wonderful text I read on this forum here and I agree with it fully too. I don't know Para's religion but this point of view is close for views of the Catholic Church.
Anonymous, I am not going to convince you to anything. I want to show you that different Christians could have different views a little bit.
I read your lines about the words of God, his ideas and so on. Now I'd be interested to hear something about the thoughts of Goddess. Is she too wise or too intelligent to spread her words around the world? Or is above only Man's Heaven? What do you think?
hes not stupid. the stupid people are the type of people who started this thread in a derogatory, unthinking matter. The type of person she was reflects what people say about her here. And since I did know a side many didn't, and Chris could and will probably confirm this.That the goodness that is on the sites began and still continues is because of her. She deserves it. And to turn a hateful thread thats talks about untruths about Andrea and all of a sudden it turns into a conversation about God? C'mon am I the only one who sees a big picture here? The message is only one of hope. Why? That's my question. Why is this happening? Is it a sign? A statement? What? Definatley a person that is so bad and damned to hell this would not be happening. #1 the site would not be so full of love that it is. #2 There would be absolutley no talk of God, no talk of forgivness, nothing. Sure Maybe Andrea wasn't a tool for God while living per say. But in death it may be a diffrent story. We do not know what happens after we are permantly passed on? Why would it not be possible that it could be like that? Therre is a reason this is happening. And at least it shows that God did bless Andrea and continues too with just the ones who love her still posting here.
You must be sick, very sick, to post something like that.... You did know Lea? So you looked at here, probably with your pants at your knees.. Are you jalous? whats the problem?
yah well only someone who has never fornicated could know so much useless TRIVIA about a book that exist in the fiction section of the library. How many religions are there? and they all think their god is god, right? well how many gods named god can we have?
People like this encourage us to fear mere figments of our imaginations as a way of keeping people supressed and square and frightened like them. This person probably had a mother who threatened to remove his penis with scissors if ever he was caught with it in his hand or with an erectile sin........only sinners get erections. And, if you get an erection that million year old man with the long white beard who had time to peice together single handedly the billion billion nucleotide dna sequences of the millions of species plus all the ecologies, geologies, anthropologies etc.. of every planet in every solar system of all the trillions of stars in under a week is going to strike down on thee with furious anger for he has time to do punish children with erections, after all nothing else to do.
don't you religious fools understand that god lost when life was put out to tender. he lost to evolution, evolution got the contract and it did a way better job than old white beard could have. so stop with this bull**** about heaven and hell. I've been dead, for 54seconds and guess what? nada. No light with god standing in front of it, no painful hell, thats where i would be, just an empty space not devoid of consciousness or should i say spiritualismness.
so stop trying to get your way of frigidity by threatening good fornicators with eternal damnation. and andrea absolonova brings all her dead friends over to your house when you shower so they can point at your little pecker and laugh at you for how small it is and how none of them would fornicate with you anyway. also she licks your wifes pussy as a joke while you sleep. dickhead.
