If your too glad to ask for help, thats your problem.
Why in this world today it is so bad to ask for help? Do you have a job? Do you spend your money? Why couldn't Andrea? Your telling Tom that he is ignorant, yet you are asking where Andreas money is? It's not of our business where it went. I am sure to ask for help from people you do not know is quite hard. And don't think for a minute that in this instance it is for gain. Many people learned about who exactly Andrea was by her sister asking for help. Look at it this way. If you had a job that paid good for seven years and thought you had most of the rest of your life to live. What would you do with that money? You would spend most of it. Like Andrea did. When she found out she was sick every ounce of effort and money went to getting her better. Without medical insurance I am sure you can imagine that it went fast. She ran out then they asked for help. Just like any caring family would of.
have you ever meet lea? from whom you know for sure that she spend the all money?THE ALLL.....know you what? i don't believe that she spend all money, because...do you know how many earn porn actress?
especially in PRIVATE or in NEW SENSATIONS and in other big business company actress earn circa 6000 dollars /for only 6 days/
ouur lovely lea was a very talented ambitious young girl, actress,star...she did a lot movies, a lot photos for magazines......so....where are her money?
i believe that she didn't give it to her sister....i don't know why.....because if i would love my sister i would give her my money before death /or my mother/ or.....my man.
lucie, i willing to offer some money but i want to know...what happened with lea's money? my suspect is /unfortunatelly,this swine tom possible has right/ that her fiance stolen it.
lucie, haven't i right?
i think that problem should be clean if we asked anothre people about money.sorry, but money is money,especially when we work hard and when we have own family.
All I will say is that on the inside Andrea, was one of the most kind, beautiful persons I know. She had issues. Like all of us. She had problems. Like all of us. In many spots she was very hard headed. Like most of us. But her spirit was beautiful and good. She loved and wanted to make others feel good. Because it made her feel good. I am talking in general terms and not about her job.
I was told once by Andrea that some of what was shared with me she had not or wanted to share with others. Thus, I am very careful with what I share out of respect. I can tell you we talked. We talked about life, our homes, our families, our problems and demons. We talked about what was happening in the world. We voiced our opinions to eachother. I last spoke with her from her mobile when she found out she was sick. But she did not tell me what it was. I know mostly what her life consisted of. I knew a lot of her likes and dislikes. I knew she had plans for the future. As I got to know her I felt closer and closer to her. I voiced my opinion against doing what she was doing for a living. And of course she said that it was her choice to do what she wanted to do. And, she understood that even though I did not agree. I still did respect her decisions. Some people ask why just forget? I tell you why. Sometimes when I notice the sun shining, It's light of Andreas eyes. Sometimes when the wind blows just right. It's her voice telling you "I'm here." Though I very much miss her it is her spirit that comforts me. And that's the way she was. You cannot forget someone who touches your life. To me she was not the porn star from private. She was a young woman that was cut down in the prime of life. She was a friend. Almost as close as a sibling. Out of all the pain and the loss the one thing that came from this is the forgivness for those that should of forgave. I can tell them that of all things. That is a comforting thing for Andrea. I think in a lot of ways that was one of the things she wanted most out of life. And thats fact.
Lea was a lovely beautiful young girl, unlucky twice, first when she was an athlete, second when she was a performer.
Tom don't understand or don't want understand !!! This is not a question about Liberar or not Liberal, this is a tragedy for a young girl, performer or not.She was owner of her life!
I'm not interest if she was lesben! This is not my business!
Lea's money is not our business, she was a girl like all, she could spend her money how she wanted!
I want say only a thing; when a person dies like lea, whit her painful, dies by brain cancer, I'm not interest if he was a performer or a robber or a bad person, for my opinion is a very unlucky person so I have only respect facing her tragic death!
Tom, you need respect Lea, also she was a performer!
She was only an unlucky young girl, died tragically.
All of us should have more respect for died people, performer or not performer, it doesn't matter!
More respect for who passed away!
A last thing. Lea wasn't so ugly like said Tom, she wasn't perfect like some others performers, i agree, but her face was adorable, her blu eyes was wonderful. She was a blonde beautiful czech girl!
Don't worry Lea, you will stay forever in our hearts!
Para, becayse chris can't to realise own promise maybe we lonely could to talk about lovely Lea?!
you wrote revelation things!!!!
please, please,please Para- i know that your stories about Lea are your stories and i respect it......but please.....could you to talk us a more about that wonderful young girl, so tragic....
you wrote about conversations with her...could you tell - what lea liked and not liked...i know, it was simple things, but it is for me ,for her fans,i suppose, very interesting. i know only that she liked sport...what else? for example...what food she liked, what favourite her book was, if she liked cars or not....etc
what she thought about "what happening in the world"? could you tell us too?
it help me a more understand Lea....
sorry that i ask about it tragic time...but did you talk with her in hospital?
i'm sure that she was very brave....do you confirm it? or maybe she was in despair...poor girl...
what you thought when you said about demons?
please, not forget about lea and about her fans which haven't happiness to know her.
I have not had contact with Chris for quite a while. Not faulted by him. Remember he has to make a living. And very strongly because of him we are able to correspond here. He is a great friend of Andrea's and was there almost constantly during the ordeal. And was only a phone call away at other times. Chris may have changed his mind on a book. There may be other complications. Also, it takes a while to get things going and finished with a book. It's a little more than writing and all. But if there is a book about her he should be the guy to do it. Andrea loved to get out and do alot of stuff. She loved being with friends. She loved the outdoors and loved the stars. She has her name "Andrea Absolonova" on a silicon chip that was shot in space. I think that was when she was still a diver. She loved traveling but seemed to get home sick after a short while. And it also depended on who she traveled with. I remember one time she said she had to cut her hair. She didn't seem to happy with it. I can go on with generals like this but really there is little sence in it. Before she got ill I believe she was thinking about coming back to america to do some more films. I think it had been documented here or somewhere else online that she was intensely thinking about starting a family. I will not ever mention any names that she brought up to me. And I will not bring up any of her personal remarks of others either. This is not the place nor the time for that. Yes, she was brave. She always said she had gotten that from her mother. When I said demons I meant it as personal problems. You know the problems that are always poking at you and such. One more thing. This goes out to big Tom. I wanted Tom to know that Andrea knew at least 5 languages. Most quite fluent. I am wondering if tom himself can speak and understand 5 languages? Andrea was far from being stupid. She was quite intelligent. She also had ambitions big guy. Andrea, if set her mind on something could of done it. How many people do you know that could of gone to the olympics? She was one of the best at what she did. She was starting to gain large fan base in her film career. My guess that it may have been bigger than even Silvia Saint with a few more years. If that is what she wanted to do.
Para - big thanks for your storie about our lovely Lea.....it is wonderful that you not have this all memory about ANDREA only for herself... i want to say that many nany people love and remember lea.......
i didn't want to say wrong about Chris...noooo!!! he is doing the all wonderful for lea and for us!!!
thanks Chris for your job .....
Para ,could you tell else something about lea, for example - what she liked and not liked,did she like to read books /what book was her favourite?/ ,did she like cars, what was her manner dressed in normal life...?
you wrote that you talked with lea about events in the world...it is interesting - what was Lea's opinions about it, about people and world.......please, give us a little LEA!!!
I will not say much because I think that first should be the words from her friends that spent more "real" time with her and her family should have a say before me. Not saying that I may or may not have additional stories, facts, and all. But all that should talk before myself have not yet. It's not that I wouldn't like to share. It's just the respectful thing to do. I should say if I make a comment based on my opinion and not on fact, that I have no way of knowing that it could hurt feelings. That's absolutely not what I want to do. Let me add here that I do NOT know personaly any of Andreas family. I only know what she spoke of them. Same with close friends such as Monica. She really for the most part generalized things about what was going on in the world. Mostly on the side of public opinions, with a few exceptions. The kind of person that would sometimes be shy but well worth knowing and then there were times that she would stand up for things that she believed in. She was a very strong willed person. I can tell you all that a few times I had mentioned that she could come to the USA and become an actress in smaller films and have a modeling career. Being careful to not tell her that she should do that but that she had that type of drive and talent to do that. She liked Las Vegas but she did not like the idea to be away from friends and loved ones for a long period of time. She mentioned one time that being with friends helped being away from home. She had much fun but still missed home. At the end I think all friends and family had grasp the fact what this beautiful person meant to us. At times I still believe the phone will ring with her voice at the other end. I very much miss it. Fact is any part or every part of our lifes she has touched will never ever be the same. She was a strong enough person with whatever she done that there will always be that void. Daughter, sister, friend. We cannot replace her. This is what hurts so much. I almost feel guilty because I took for granted the phone calls. The emails. And now they are no more. For some of us Andrea was way more than an actress. Much more than a collection on a shelf. She always deserved the best but very rarley got it. But she didn't bitch about it much. She knew it could be worse. Then one day it did.
